Hi all,

I am living in Istanbul. Because of my job, I travel a lot to the European Countries. When I was in London for the business meeting, I met a Polish man. Afterwards, he came to visit me to my country. At first everything was OK, than we broke up suddenly without any reason. I just wonder to know, how the Polish men? I mean I never like to seperate the people as their nationality or the other subjects. But, I heard some interesting things related with the Polish men and I would like to know, could it be true? Because, I think that Polish men was always afraid to believe the good things and he has always doubt about himself that he is not good enough, so he choose always his sadnesses as a lifepartner. Anyway...I heard that especially after the 2nd W.War, the women became have more stronger situation in their family, such as family boss. The men started to drink too much and became more lazy. On the other hand, the Polish men are always very kind to the Polish women and the family is always important for them. Briefly, how the general life style in Poland? I mean the relationship with women and men. According to my experiense (I mentioned that I travel a lot and I met also some Polish friends, but I would like to know the objective opinions), I could say, at first the Polish people look very serious and cold, but when you start to conversation with them and when you know them better, I can say very easy that, they are really very lively and funny. They have very good sense of humor and very kind.
I do have another question? I have a Polish visum now and will come to Warsaw on October for a week for my vacation. I guess, if I can't persuade my friends to come with me, I will come alone. Is it safety as a women especially, if I go to a pub alone in the nights?
Thank you very much!